*)I got this article from Ps Jose, then I found in one of the blog, copied and share for you
If you're not married yet, share this with a friend. If you are married,
share it with your spouse or other married couples and reflect on it.
An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open,
and after you marry, close one eye."
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust,
desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low
self-esteem, make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't
fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults
aren't really important.
